When Friendship Begins To Make A Change In The World

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The Help 2011(joblo.com)

What do we do when we need to be saved form something and we need someone that we can rely on to do it for us and in best case scenario we will need a friend.
It’s known that friendship between people is often something hard to preserve and to keep it just for yourself, because the friends that we have might have other friends too, so we won’t be the most important in this case because there will be people that have something that we don’t have and they can be better friends at some point.
Many times we feel offended because we are not number one in someone’s life and we don’t understand why we won’t be picked to be the important one. So many times we fight with the idea that we are appreciated and people like us just the way we are, because we don’t actually believe this is true.
We can’t have all the people depending on us because then we will be overwhelmed by others and by their problems until we forget about us and lose any sense of direction in our life because we focus too much on the others and what they think about us.
We are talking about two types of friendship now. The true friendship that is unconditioned and doesn’t impose rules and requests is not selfish and based on something that you have to win from the other with whom you spend time and make efforts to understand that person.
The other type is the one that based on interest and a relationship from which you have to win something, either money or material belongings. In any case you won’t get out of it without keeping something in return.
This relationship is not a real one because you won’t get to know that one next to you and won’t be able to see behind the appearances. Judging everything and only seeing the surface things won’t help us in the future or in any other time   because we will be a shallow person and we will have nothing to give to the other that might trust us.

The Help Movie (cinemagia.ro)

So what is friendship really about? Sending time, consuming your mental resources to try to understand the other and offer him support and encourage him in doing the right choices and being there for the ones that we care about the most. We don’t want anything in return and we are happy if the other person is happy too, because that shows that we are good friends and we can be trusted at any time by anyone.
When we see movies that include friendship, true friendship and how people help each other and their friendship can shake up the world, we only think that is an unusual relationship but we are not sure if we must condemn it or look up to those that have such a courage to do these things.
In the same order of ideas we can find on IMDB a movie that was created referring to friendship. That particular friendship is weird one because it involves three courageous women that dare defy the society and do things their way in order to set justice for those that are treated badly and who are made slaves with no rights at all and that are viewed badly in the society.
The movie is called The Help and shows how friends can decide fate and can change perspective of the world if they try hard enough and fight for what they believe.
The movie is going to appear according to IMDB this year on the 12 of August and it will show us what it takes to have courage and dare to make a difference where no one else wants to get involved and do things in a different manner than the one they know it’s normal to do.

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